Why We Avoid Difficult Conversations and What to Do About Them



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Licensed Mental Health Counselor, Speaker, Author





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Top categories for why we avoid





  1. Feeling that we aren’t good enough 
  2. Fear of damaging or ending the relationship 
Tips to change it.
  1. Identify your why
  2. Find a private to say it raw first 
  3. Identify what you need/want to convey 
  4. Have the conversation with person





LMHC author of book titled Get Out of Your Own Way, 21 Days to Stop Self Sabotage. 
You can follow me on Facebook and Instagram @brittanyajohnsonlmhc





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